My son just had his birthday party with his school friends. He had a great time and also got some birthday gifts. I explained that it would be good manners to give thank you notes to his friends. A few days later I asked him to sit down and write them. Complaints, complaints from him. Not wanting to nag, I told him he needed to do them at some point. It seems like lately everything I ask him to do, it's like torture. The tears, the stomping the attitude! I don't think I"m asking too much...clean your room, write out and practice spelling words, take a shower...
If any of you are experienced moms, I would love some wisdom on how to deal with this. I"m getting nervous that my son is going to spend his life sitting around playing video games. Anyway, I stamped this card front today. I am LOVING my new Loads of Love Stamp set. I can't believe I never gave it a second glance before. I think I always stayed away from line image sets because I thought it meant I would have to watercolour and I don't think that's my forte. But with a set like Loads of Love, the markers are so perfect. I can colour inside the lines (mostly). The colours used here are pumpkin pie, daffodil delight, pacific point and sahara sand. I asked my son to colour the images but of course he wouldn't. He figured it was enough that he wrote the thank you's. I didn't argue with him because I needed the decompression time anyway...to pray about how to we could move forward from this stage we seem to be in. Honestly, stamping alone can be so peaceful and relaxing. I was happy with my creation. I wanted it to be really simple. I think the paper piercing at the top adds some simple interest. If you haven't taken out your stamping supplies in a while, just give yourself permission to stamp. It's cheaper than psychotherapy bills. Grin.
Great post btw.
ReplyDeleteHang in there. Our older kids are just trying to exert their independence. It is natural that they argue against doing things "our" way. Just keep setting the example and your kids will eventually "get it". At least that's what I keep telling myself...